Poem of the Week, by Naomi Shihab Nye

The food share encourages volunteers to take home a bag of food for themselves. “I don’t feel right about that,” I said to my friend. “Why should I take a bag when I can afford to buy groceries?”

My friend looked at me calmly. “By not taking a bag, you set yourself apart from people who do. You implicitly demonstrate that those who volunteer here, the ones who can afford groceries, are somehow superior to those who come for food.”

This was one of those moments when the world suddenly pivoted a fraction of a degree for me. What is the current ICE occupation here but the action of people who perceive themselves to be superior?

Racism is core: the implicit assumption is that if your skin is not white and/or your English is accented, you are suspect. You can be hauled from your car, your school, your place of work, your asylum hearing, because you have been deemed automatically inferior by those currently in power in our administration.

Who am I to judge myself even remotely different from anyone else? I took a bag of food home with me and cooked up a big batch of soup to share with others. ❤️‍🩹

Kindness, by Naomi Shihab Nye

Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.
Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.

Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
You must wake up with sorrow.
You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.
Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread,
only kindness that raises its head
from the crowd of the world to say
It is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you everywhere
like a shadow or a friend.

Click here for more information about Naomi Shihab Nye. Today’s poem is from Words Under the Words: Selected Poems, published in 1995.
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Poem of the Week, by Naomi Shihab Nye

​More than half my country’s wealth is hoarded by a few hundred billionaires. A few of them have bought their way into power and have said they’d like to take away the bare-bones security our government guarantees to ordinary hardworking people. They call it ‘disruption,’ but it’s chaos and destruction and pain. It doesn’t have to be this way. We don’t have to let it be this way.

When they were tiny and had a bad dream I held my children and sang to them and soothed them so they would feel loved and secure and safe. Isn’t that what we were born to do? Don’t we reach out instinctively to help those who are hurting? We’re not going to be able to live in this world if we can’t take care of each other.

Shoulders, by Naomi Shihab Nye

A man crosses the street in rain,
stepping gently, looking two times north and south,
because his son is asleep on his shoulder.

No car must splash him.
No car drive too near to his shadow.

This man carries the world’s most sensitive cargo
but he’s not marked.
Nowhere does his jacket say FRAGILE,
HANDLE WITH CARE.

His ear fills up with breathing.
He hears the hum of a boy’s dream
deep inside him.

We’re not going to be able
to live in this world
if we’re not willing to do what he’s doing
with one another.

The road will only be wide.
The rain will never stop falling.

 Click here for more information about the iconic Naomi Shihab Nye. Today’s poem is from her collection Red Suitcase, published in 1994 by BOA Editions. 

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Poem of the Week, by Naomi Shihab Nye

Friends, if you read and liked my new novel Telephone of the Tree, I’d be grateful if you gave it a good review on Amazon or elsewhere (online reviews are important to a book’s success). You can find the book here. Thank you! 

Paco and I rounded the southern tip of Lake Bde Maka Ska a few days ago on the pedestrian path. I don’t know what he was thinking about but I was thinking about future griefs to come and how I dread going through any of them, because why wouldn’t I? Grief is hard and it hurts and it swamps, but it will come and I won’t be able to escape it.

Then a tiny inner voice said Happiness is the same way, and I examined that thought. Happiness floods me in tiny unexpected moments: pouring the hot water over the grounds, laughing at a text from my brother, watching my girl walk across a field holding flowers. It perches on my shoulders like a tiny invisible bird. I recognize it when it’s there, and how beautiful a feeling it is, but I never expect it to stay. And it doesn’t.

Generations, by Naomi Shihab Nye

At the end of an unseasonably warm day
New Year’s Eve 2017
I stood in my kitchen holding
one wooden spoon.

My mom was watching TV
in the living room
eating apples, crackers, and cheese.
My grandson slept in a stroller
in a quiet back room.
I was related to both people,
ages ninety and one.
They were peaceful.
And that was it.
The most beautiful moment
of my life.

Click here for more information about poet Naomi Shihab Nye. I’m unable to figure out where this poem was first published.

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Poem of the Week, by Naomi Shihab Nye

Spots are still available in the July 17-19 mini-session of our popular Write Together sessions, in which we gather on Zoom for an hour in the morning and an hour in the evening and write quietly together from a guided prompt. Cost: $100. Please click here for all the details. I’d love to see you in the Zoom room. 

People who read this Poem of the Week regularly must think, Wow, does this woman love Naomi Shihab Nye. And they would be right. Sometimes, walking down the street, I recite lines from her poems, maybe because they’re beautiful, maybe because they make me feel less alone. Once a friend said to me, “I read a poem today that I somehow think you would love. It’s by a woman named…Naomi something?”–and I said, “Naomi Shihab Nye!”

She’s a poet who begins with a thing, a real, tangible thing like the stone in the poem below (and I am a writer who loves the thingness of things) and from that thing she somehow spirals a kite of words up into the air and stitches it to feelings and experience in a fearlessly human way. She reminds me, always, that kindness is all that matters. She reminds me, always, that we’re all the same. That we each carry a tender spot, something our lives forgot to give us.

Jerusalem, by Naomi Shihab Nye

“Lets be the same wound if we must bleed.
         Lets fight side by side, even if the enemy
is ourselves: I am yours, you are mine.”
                                    —Tommy Olofsson, Sweden

I’m not interested in
who suffered the most.
I’m interested in
people getting over it.
Once when my father was a boy
a stone hit him on the head.
Hair would never grow there.
Our fingers found the tender spot
and its riddle: the boy who has fallen
stands up. A bucket of pears
in his mother’s doorway welcomes him home.
The pears are not crying.
Later his friend who threw the stone
says he was aiming at a bird.
And my father starts growing wings.

Each carries a tender spot:
something our lives forgot to give us.
A man builds a house and says,
“I am native now.”
A woman speaks to a tree in place
of her son. And olives come.
A child’s poem says,
“I don’t like wars,
they end up with monuments.”
He’s painting a bird with wings
wide enough to cover two roofs at once.

Why are we so monumentally slow?
Soldiers stalk a pharmacy:
big guns, little pills.
If you tilt your head just slightly
it’s ridiculous.

There’s a place in my brain
where hate won’t grow.
I touch its riddle: wind, and seeds.
Something pokes us as we sleep.

It’s late but everything comes next.

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Poem of the Week, by Naomi Shihab Nye

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This poem, lettered on handmade paper and framed, hangs on a wall in my house, a collective gift from friends a few years ago. Sometimes, when I feel hopeless in the face of it all, I recite lines from it to help un-paralyze myself. A small act of goodness is still a way to help the world.

Famous, by Naomi Shihab Nye

The river is famous to the fish.

The loud voice is famous to silence,   
which knew it would inherit the earth   
before anybody said so.   

The cat sleeping on the fence is famous to the birds   
watching him from the birdhouse.   

The tear is famous, briefly, to the cheek.   

The idea you carry close to your bosom   
is famous to your bosom.   

The boot is famous to the earth,   
more famous than the dress shoe,   
which is famous only to floors.

The bent photograph is famous to the one who carries it   
and not at all famous to the one who is pictured.   

I want to be famous to shuffling men   
who smile while crossing streets,   
sticky children in grocery lines,   
famous as the one who smiled back.

I want to be famous in the way a pulley is famous,   
or a buttonhole, not because it did anything spectacular,   
but because it never forgot what it could do.

Click here for more information about the wondrous Naomi Shihab Nye. Famous is included in Words Under the Words: Selected Poems by Naomi Shihab Nye.

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